YOU ARE …
the star in your show of life.
The role of best supporting actress might be something you got used to, you normalized it and it stayed …
But it’s high time to step into the light and claim your heart’s dreams, the lifestyle you’ve been envisioning for yourself.
All of this connects to your sense of worthiness, self-belief and confidence.
It seems so easy at first glance or at the level of just logically reading this, but I created 22 sessions in Worthy to help you recode yourself into that state of belief in your essence, your power, your capabilities.
This process of un-doing, reprogramming you back to remembering who you are at your core requires devotion - time, focus, energy.
It’s fascinating how this underpins everything that’s connected to our personal freedom and creating this version of delicious life full of pleasure and wonder.
As always ~
Stay fabulous...
It’s in our ‘nice girl’ coding that we want to fit in and be liked by everyone. It gives us a false sense of worthiness and societal acceptance. That’s the subconscious program we’re running in our brains.
But when you are your authentic self, with your hopes, desires and dreams, when you allow yourself to be unapologetically YOU, the layers of pretense dissolve and it’s impossible to be plain and neutral any longer … it’s like being grey but knowing there’s a whole range of rainbow colors you could choose instead.
But you keep choosing grey … why? It feels much safer.
It’s not easy to break that pattern of not accepting yourself. It feels uncomfortable to try on new identity. Choosing the freedom to be your true self, your authentic expression, will for sure trigger some but simultaneously it will epically inspire...
When your sense of worthiness is attached to your ego, it mainly relies on what you have and not who you are.
Subtracting what you have doesn’t make you less worthy, although ego would often get shaken by this. It loves the illusion of more means MORE worthy …
The truth is your true sense of worthiness is steady, it’s not a wave.
Your worthiness just is and it goes beyond the circumstances of having or not having things.
Things are just things.
Attaching our sense of worthiness to things is damaging, destructive, painful and it delays the whole journey of creating the lifestyle that you dream of …
And it stops expansion of the inner world.
Those who are here for the chase, a rat race of who has more, are not my audience. Formulas of how to make a 100K a day, a week, a month don’t thrill me. Quite opposite. I see the shallow part of it and I run the other direction.
Know your personal values and stick with...
Introduction: In a world dominated by social media, it's easy to get caught up in the validation of others, seeking external approval for our thoughts and creations.
However, true happiness lies in validating oneself, detaching from the insecurities that external measures can bring. Today, let's shift our focus inward and explore the transformative power of self-love.
Remember those days when the number of likes on Facebook determined your worth?
The quest for external validation led to stress and disappointment. It's a common struggle, but the key is realizing that ‘likes’ don't define your impact.
Validation starts from within, and as we detach from the need for external approval, we open ourselves to a world of genuine self-expression. In those moments of authenticity, we activate joy and create a flow in our lives that feels effortless.
The synchronicity between passion and self-expression becomes a beacon, influencing not...
Today, I would like to share my experiences and insights on the importance of self-love, validation, and the power of detaching from external approval to embrace a life filled with happy days and synchronicity.
Initially, I struggled with the need for external validation, especially on social media platforms like Facebook.
The lack of interaction on my posts, which were heartfelt expressions, often left me feeling unheard and unseen. This experience taught me a crucial lesson about the significance of self-validation over external approval.
The work starts here:
“You deserve it” is not a compliment. You don’t need to earn it to deserve it. You’re undeniably worthy without earning it!! You already know it and obviously you deserve it.
You know it, you feel it, you BE it.
As a society, we’re addicted to validation. On one hand I totally get this need for validation, it’s some sort of a proof that our human ego needs… But when you really feel like you need that proof are you unworthy without it?
And as always -
Stay fabulous!
Love. Malgosia (Margo)...
It’s not easy because we’re programmed to see negativity and in our yet undiscovered sense of unworthiness, our lens is focused on noticing same things in others.
But …
If there is a contrast in what you see while looking honestly at the situation despite the jealousy and judgment, is there something that inspires you?
Then take it as an invitation to expand and realize that if it’s possible for her, it’s possible for you. The only difference is the clarity on your dream and another itsy bitsy piece ….
You guessed what it is?
Freaking UNWAVERING self belief!!
Easier said than done?
That’s what I do with my private clients, my program Worthy and all my writing -...
You need to devote your time and make a commitment.
That dream lifestyle that you envision for yourself is available but it’s a compounding effect of all the choices you make.
And with each personal upgrade that you celebrate, you discover new layers of thinking patterns to re-code that will allow you to fly even higher.
Stay fabulous.
Dream big.
And love with your whole heart -
Never forget …
Your worthiness is innate
Love. Malgosia (Margo)
Maybe it’s a new definition but since we talk so much about energy, it’s hard to avoid the topic of beauty, magnetism and manifestation.
It will never be anchored to anything real … you will think of taking floral baths and lighting candles but the true self acceptance won’t be there. It’s a superficial fluff that some of us get to believe is self love. In reality it’s a crème de la crème of something that you already feel inside about who you are. It’s sprinkles on how you already feel about YOU and your capabilities to create your own version of dream life … AND how you embrace yourself on a bad day.